The Hidden Cost of Choices
“To choose is to renounce.” — André Gide Every time we decide to focus on something, we make a choice to ignore everything else. In management consulting, when you decide to get yourself onto a 3rd banking project that year, you know you are starting to go down the financial services specialization path. You effectively decided not to specialize in some other areas you really wanted to specialize in. As a senior manager at a major company, when you decide to move to another unit, leaving your mentor and team in trouble because they have to scramble to replace you, you choose to ignore your relationship with your mentor and your team in favor of focus on that new shiny role that seems like a step up. Even as a concert pianist, when I decided to play Rachmaninov Musical Moment No.4 in E minor, I knew I was committing to 5 hours a day, no weekends, no holidays, of practicing that piece. That was in addition to a few other pieces I was practicing. That was in addition to classes and work. Here are choices I did not realize at the time I was making. - This meant basically zero free…